House rules

A little consideration.

Everything you might like to know before we meet, gathered gently in one place: how to reach me, how to confirm, and how to prepare. Read what's helpful, skip what isn't, and reach out in whichever way feels most comfortable.

Good to know

Before we meet.

A little on reaching out, confirming, arriving, and what our time together feels like. Tap any question to open it.

Paola Rosa
One

Reaching out

Bookings & introductions+

I arrange every booking directly with the person I'll be spending time with, never through a friend, a partner, or anyone on someone else's behalf. It's a small thing that keeps our time private, comfortable, and safe for us both. For couples, I love to begin with a short conversation with both of you, simply to make sure we're a beautiful fit before we meet.

How to reach me+

Reach out however feels most natural to you:

  • The inquiry form is my favourite, and it gathers everything I need to confirm your date quickly.
  • A text message is welcome too, if that's easier (I don't take phone calls).
  • Or email me at paolarosa@proton.me.

However you write, a thoughtful note always earns my warmest reply.

What to share when you write+

To confirm smoothly, it helps to include:

  • Your name or alias
  • Your age
  • Your city
  • Whether you'd prefer incall or outcall
  • Your ideal date(s) and time(s)
  • How long you'd love to spend together
  • One or more forms of screening: an EMT, a valid phone number (no VoIP), or a verified LinkedIn profile

And anything else you'd like to share about yourself. I always love a little context.

Two

Reserving & settling

Deposits & payment+

A deposit simply holds our time exclusively for you. A minimum 30% deposit confirms every booking and is applied toward your total; some prefer to send a little more so the balance is easy to settle in cash on arrival, entirely your call. Deposits are non-negotiable and non-refundable, unless I'm ever the one to cancel.

I accept E-transfer, Paysend (U.S. to Canada), Throne, or Amazon and Uber gift cards. For a cash-friendly option, Amazon or Uber gift cards can be bought in-store. Just send a clear photo of the code. Visiting from the U.S.? You're welcome to pay in USD at a kind 1:1 rate with CAD.

Confirming & preparing+

Your reservation is confirmed the moment your deposit arrives, so do send it along as soon as you can to secure your time, and for a same-day or two-hour-notice booking, a little promptness lets me prepare properly. I'll always follow up with a final confirmation so we can look over the details together and avoid any mix-ups. Downtown parking can be a touch unpredictable, so I keep arrival notes ready; just tell me if you'll be driving and I'll send them your way.

Cancellations & rescheduling+

Life happens, and I understand plans shift, so just tell me as early as you can.

  • More than 24 hours ahead: your deposit can move to a new date, once.
  • Less than 24 hours, or a same-day booking: the deposit is non-refundable, and a fresh one is needed to rebook.
  • A no-show forfeits the deposit in full; if I don't hear from you at all, I may gently decline future requests.
  • And in the rare event I must cancel, your deposit is fully refunded, or applied to a future date, whichever you prefer.
Three

Your visit

Arrival & discretion+

I'll send arrival details once your deposit is in. You can come via the street entrance or through the building, whichever suits your parking. When you arrive, a quick text to say you've parked is perfect. I'll let you know the moment everything's ready and invite you up. I'm usually close by to welcome you right at the door, so there's no need to wait or knock, though a soft knock is always fine.

A quiet, discreet tone in the hallway means the world to me, and I'll always offer you the same. If you're early, do wait for our scheduled time; if you're running late, a quick message is all I need, though a late arrival may shorten our time if I have plans afterward.

Our time together+

Our time is led by chemistry, mutual comfort, and genuine attentiveness, never a menu, a checklist, or negotiations. Think slow, sensual, and romantic: an unhurried girlfriend experience shaped entirely by our connection, with gentle check-ins along the way so we're both completely at ease and savouring every moment.

Comfort & little touches+
  • Outfit requests are welcome with at least 24 hours' notice. A $60 styling fee covers the thoughtful preparation, and it's happily waived if you're bringing something new for me to wear.
  • Dates of three hours or more include a light meal and unhurried social time.
  • You're welcome to bring a drink you love: wine, a pre-mixed cocktail, or something alcohol-free; if we're sharing, simply make sure it's sealed.
Freshening up & hygiene+

When you arrive, a brief moment in the washroom is part of the ritual: a chance to settle in, set down your things, and slip into a fresh robe. You'll find clean towels, mouthwash, hot towels, and every little essential, and you're always welcome to shower again afterward so you step back into your day feeling wonderful.

Good hygiene means a great deal to me: please arrive clean and well-groomed, and I'm always glad to freshen up too. I do reserve the right to end our time if hygiene isn't maintained.

Extending our time+

If we're lost in good conversation and my schedule allows, nothing would make me happier than to linger a little longer. Additional time is added by the hour: C$500 per extra hour in Canada, or US$750 per extra hour internationally.

And when I have the flexibility and we're truly enjoying ourselves, I'm often glad to gift you up to 20 minutes as a courtesy. A smooth start and finish keeps everything feeling unhurried and lovely.

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